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The Best Marketing Feels Personal, Not Promotional
Forget free stuff for the masses. Win hearts with things people actually want to keep because P.S. no one is sharing your stress ball and beer koozie on Instagram.
For years, marketers have been stuck in a dangerous loop:
→ More content.
→ More ads.
→ More noise.
And for what?
Most of it gets ignored, skipped, blocked, or scrolled past faster than you can say “brand awareness.”
Turns out, the problem isn’t that people hate marketing.
They just hate bad marketing.
Quantity got us reach. Quality gets us relevance.
Let’s be real: a boosted post will get eyes on your brand. But a moment that makes people laugh, feel, or actually do something? That’s what gets remembered. And shared. And screenshotted. And talked about at brunch.
That’s the difference between existing in someone’s feed vs. existing in their life.
Emotional connection > Impressions
Always. Every time.
"People don’t buy products. They buy stories, feelings, and vibes." — probably Aristotle, definitely EPIC
Why most brands think they’re connecting... but aren’t.
Here’s the classic mistake:
Brands sprinkle a little “storytelling” or “experiential” magic dust on a campaign... but never fully commit.
They throw up a hashtag here. A neon sign there. Maybe an awkward activation at a trade show. But without a real, cohesive experience? It falls flat.
Good experiential marketing isn’t just pretty. It’s purposeful. It’s bold. And above all else it makes people feel like they’re part of something.

If your brand was a movie... would anyone watch?
Every brand has an origin story. But the best brands treat their customers like co-stars versus spectators or even worse…customers.
That’s where personalization comes in hot.
Personalization isn't slapping someone's name on an email.
It’s about making your audience feel seen.
Like really seen.
Think:
→ Branded props people want to play with
→ Interactive moments that spark curiosity
→ Giveaways they’d actually brag about
→ Spaces designed for participation, not just observation
If it feels one-size-fits-all, it feels forgettable.
But if it feels like this was made for me? That’s when the magic happens.

The EPIC Playbook in Action: Turning the City into a Conversation Starter
When EPIC Promotionals launched a series of interactive posters around Buffalo asking “Where do you Experience Something Different in Buffalo?” — people didn’t just stop and stare. They stopped and shared.
Armed with Sharpies, locals turned our posters into living love letters to their city. It wasn’t about us — it was about them. That’s the whole point.
People want to feel part of the story.
Quick Hits for Brands Who Wat to Actually Matter
→ Branded props that beg for interaction
→ Small pop-ups that feel personal, not corporate
→ Games, polls, or challenges that tap into them
→ Surprise moments that feel human, not forced
Final Thought: If You Want Loyalty, Build Belonging
It’s not about shouting louder.
It’s about making people care enough to lean in.
Know your audience so well they feel like you get them. Then build experiences so good they can’t help but tell everyone else about it.
Because in the end, the most powerful marketing isn’t a message.
It’s a memory.